weijue 发表于 2014-2-22 20:03 
真的迷茫,跪求指点
Simply my own views, don't take it serious:
1) "西部普通985学校研二在读"-- What is a value of a PhD from a non top university?
2) "喜欢学校的环境,对科研,谈不上喜欢,但是不排斥吧"-- School maybe your "comfort zone", but does not mean that PhD is suitable for you (note: so far there is no evidence you are really good in research based on what you said--目前只有一篇小论文在外审中,录没录还不确定,除此之外没有其他成果 。)
3) "再加上年纪也不小了,也没男朋友...读研后交际圈缩小" --I am afraid your problems of social life will be bigger when you move on your research path
4) Are you sure you want spend three more years on pursuing a PhD, or actually you are afraid to face a job market after your Master degree?