Whereas You Were an Insensitive Fool...
The simple truth is that if you want to be heard by your husband, you must speak a language he understands.
如果你想你丈夫听你的，你就必须说他能听懂的语言，这是一个简单的事实。
An example: A friend of mine is married to a wealthy
money waster
(spendthrift
)who used to drive like a maniac
（madman
）— tailgating, speeding, weaving between lanes. My friend repeatedly expressed her fear about his dangerous habits but he didn’t modify his behavior; money was the language he spoke. She gave him o ...