充实每一天 发表于 2018-8-3 08:06
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昨日读书1小时,累计读书92小时,读Seven Habits。
习惯6:协同,即1+1>2<br>
协同是最高效的成功,协同不是各方妥协后的结果,而是在双方互异的基础上,充分利用差异找出实现彼此利益最大化的解决方案,实现协同后,双方都会觉得自己得到了想要的结果,而不会因为迁就对方而自己觉得委屈或不满。
但是实现协同需要勇气,真实,这代表着打开自己内心,可能会因此受伤或受打击,但是只有这样才会获得对方也真诚相待,从而双方进入信任阶段,打开心扉进行交流,共同分析问题的实质,最终找到协同解决方案。
最终,人们往往发现,没有解决不了的问题,只有不愿意解决问题的人。
原文摘录:<br>
There was usually an early moment that required considerable courage, perhaps in becoming extremely authentic, in confronting some inside truth about the individual or the organization or the family which really needed to be said, but took a combination of considerable courage and genuine love to say. Then others became more authentic, open, and honest, and the synergistic communication process began. It usually became more and more creative, and ended up in insights and plans that no one had anticipated initially.