every coin has two sides,too extreme to be true.you should combine your IQ with EQ to adapt to the real society.Before i tried to make a girlfriend,i looked like you,but after the failure of my first try,i learned from the experience of the failure that too extreme to be true,you shoulde be balanced.it's the world of give and take ,and the process of give and take is always dynamic equlibirium,because of the economy you love ,the principle of the real world and that the god is fair to everyone(i'm not superstitious though).it's my experience ,i hope it's good for you.if anyone feel that i make sense ,please give me some credits with your own hands to mark me in this bbs.