We should not care too much about ourselves, so that we can give these care to others sincerely.  
我们不应该对自己过分关心，这样才可以把这些关心真诚地给予其他人。
If you want someone else to buy your basket, you have to make it feel like your basket is worth buying or something else that makes others feel valuable.如果要别人来买你的篮子，你必须要让人觉得你的篮子是值得买的，或者做些让别人觉得有价值的其他东西也可以。