找到相关解决办法如下示例：
x <- rnorm(9); y <- rnorm(9); s <- rep(c("F","G","K"), each = 3)
df <- data.frame(x, y, s)
#
require(ggplot2)
#
ggplot(df, aes(x = x, y = y, colour = s, label = s)) +
   geom_point(size = 0, stroke = 0) +  # OR  geom_point(shape = "") +
   geom_text(show.legend = FALSE) +
   guides(colour = guide_legend(override.aes = list(size = 5, shape = c(utf8ToInt("F"), utf8ToInt("K"), utf8ToInt("G"))))) +
   scale_colour_discrete(name = "My name", breaks = c("F","K","G"), labels = c("Fbig","Kbig","Gbig"))

同时产生新问题：这个方法画出来的图例是正方形，如何设置成长方形呢？