Take it easy buddy.
Please, please don't treat a female like that, no matter what.
As a practitioner, you may talk with your co-worker,
you may also talk to your subordinates,
but never ever "怒拍桌子" and yelling at somebody.
As a business owner,
you have privilege of offering any compensation.
However, basic respect is still needed.
To put it simple,
"怒拍桌子" doesn't make you look better than her.
Take it easy please.