第13天 20160517 【充实计划】
【题记】“业精于勤，荒于嬉”。上周五晚上计划写来着，已经翻开书、打开电脑，结果。。。然后，荒废至今。
想起我前年2014年7月和9月，分别开始坚持做的两件事：第一件，写《圣经》读经笔记，文本是旧约和新约经文各一篇，一天平均2500-3000字，耗时1-2h，并不太困难；第二件，读改革宗集大成者约翰·加尔文的解经书（英译本，共45卷），一天朗读一篇，早上抽时间或利用坐地铁来回的公交时间，平均每天A4纸十张的量，也很轻松。
结果是……你懂的。
留下了近五十万读经笔记后，我认为对自己的生命并无太大改变（虽然我读和写的时候体验了思考的存在感），便不写了；朗读了三卷多总计约一千页的英文原版书后，我开会发言、开口交流的时候，依然有障碍（很可能是心理层面的），不觉得自己英文提高了多少，我也不再读了。
“大音稀声、大象无形”在这个以“短平快”为“智慧”的时代，无声、无形、无果的功夫，快被遗忘，被视未愚拙。而静下心、不带“速成求效”的持续做几件自己特别想做的事情，成为奢侈。
Dalio每一句话都堪比剖入心灵深处的利剑，比如这句“The first-order consequences of escaping life’s challenges may seem pleasurable in the moment, but the second- and third-order consequences of this approach are your life and, over time, will be painful. （p. 27）”
一、资源
（一）顾诚《南明史》章二节五 北方的抗清运动
（二）Ray Dalio《原则》（英文版）之“5-step Process”
二、增量
（一）《南明史》
1、引爆点：剃头
大清的强行剃头政策，成为京师附近的许多地方揭竿而起反对清朝统治的引爆点。
（参读：孔飞力代表作《叫魂》，抱歉我买了数年，只读了几页，最晚今年底认真读一遍，不然对不起刚过世的孔飞力老先生）
2、历史如戏
（1）畿南、山东和豫东地区出现约三个月的权力近真空局面
京师内顾不暇+大顺军扼守山西=清军不敢轻易以主力南下
（2）畿南、山东大批州县拱手让给了大清
南明弘光朝廷按兵不动、一味偏安江左+清廷派出少量兵力+“济王”部下乃乌合之众+德州知州张有芳游说“济王”解散部众、拜表归顺大清=大清不站而胜利
（3）不容忽视的反清义举
自下（山东各地百姓）+自发（从未得到南明弘光朝廷支持）+规模（各地风起云涌）+效果（清廷委派官员素手无策）=清军并非坚不可摧
（4）1644年9月29日青州之变：赵应元收复青州
人物（赵应元等，领导着同主力失联的一支大顺军；王鳌永，清廷官员）+谋略（赵应元以入城拜会为名）+动机（赵，杀敌）+心理预设（王，放松警惕，以为赵来投降）+战果（王被赵处斩）+无奈（群雄欲拥立“衡潘”为号、扶立明朝；衡王却是闻清丧胆的大怂包）+影响（清廷山东巡抚方大猷惶惶不安）
（5）明奸的杀伤力：赵应元之死
降清的明青州守备李士元，整出一出“为民生计、敬请赵降清”的奸计，赵应元果然受骗、入城、酒乐伺候，最终被埋伏的清军击杀，当场身亡。
（二）《原则》之“5-step Process”
1、上节概括：两个“我”及其分工
There are two yous—you as the designer and overseer of the plan to achieve your goals (let’s call that one you (1)) and you as one of the participants in pursuing that mission (which we will call you (2)). You (2) is a resource that you (1) have to get what you (1) want, but by no means your only resource. To be successful you(1) have to be objective about you (2).
2、解雇不胜任的“我（2）”，当欢喜快乐
you (1) don’t necessarily need to do anything other than to design and manage the machine to get what you (1) want. If you (1) find that you (2) can’t do something well, fire yourself (2) and get a good replacement! You shouldn’t be upset that you found out that you(2) are bad at that—you (1) should be happy because you (1) have improved your (1) chances of getting what you (1) want.
3、实现此生所欲的五步骤流程法
Have clear goals.
Identify and don’t tolerate the problems that stand in the way of achieving your goals. Accurately diagnose these problems.
Design plans that explicitly lay out tasks that will get you around your problems and on to your goals. Implement these plans—i.e., do these tasks.
4、关于五步骤流程的几点说明
1) You must approach these as distinct steps rather than blur them together …Blurring the steps leads to suboptimal outcomes because it creates confusion and short-changes the individual steps.
2) Each of these five steps requires different talents and disciplines. ..If you are missing any of the required talents and disciplines, that is not an insurmountable problem because you can acquire them, supplement them, or compensate for not having them…be honestly self-reflective.
3) It is essential to approach this process in a very clear-headed, rational way rather than emotionally…stay centered and effective rather than stressed and thrown off by your emotions…treat your life like a game or a martial art…you will become more skilled…However, the big and really great news is that you don’t need to have all of these skills to succeed! You just have to 1) know they are needed; 2) know you don’t have some of them; and 3) figure out how to get them (i.e., either learn them or work with others who have them).
4) NOT what you “like”, BUT what you deserve
Your life—will challenge you in ways that will be uncomfortable at times. But if you work through this discomfort and reflect on it in order to learn, you will significantly improve your chances of getting what you want out of life. By and large, life will give you what you deserve and it doesn’t give a damn what you “like.” So it is up to you to take full responsibility to connect what you want with what you need to do to get it, and then to do those things—which often are difficult but produce good results— so that you’ll then deserve to get what you want.
5) Excuses like “That’s not easy” are of no value
Playing the game will be uncomfortable, and you do it for a while, it will become much easier.The first-order consequences of escaping life’s challenges may seem pleasurable in the moment, but the second- and third-order consequences of this approach are your life and, over time, will be painful.
6) 人生不疼不尽欢
Mistakes are inevitable, and it’s important to recognize and accept this fact of life…there is no end to learning how to play the game better.
三、感言：两种成败观
历史和当下，果真以成败论英雄耶？
断乎不是！
若竭力浴血奋战，虽败犹荣！
战场作如是观，商场亦然，人生亦然。
四、时长
初读+笔记+再读+整理文字，3h
五、总时长
第13天，33h
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