yifan_1983 发表于 2009-11-12 17:07 
首先非常感谢各位给我的建议!
我说几点自己想不通的,请大家不要见笑
离开北京我有些不甘心,在北京有很多跟我们情况差不多的在熬着,坚持着
别人可以留住我怎么就不能呢?
若干年后,留在北京 和 离开北京会有怎样的结果呢?
以后孩子的教育问题 两地是不是有差别
if you consider for your children, you should try staying in beijing. it is much less competitive to get into top schools. for your bf and yoruself, there are also more opportunities in beijing, but you have to be prepared for some hardships in the beginning. it is a trade off.