3# 怀璧其罪
when you become a member of the US society and see through its facade, you will realize what you are really talking about ... what you should look at is not its suburban area, which is where RICH lives (VERY DIFFERENT from China), but the inner most of its metropolitan areas (CITIES), and you will see its UGLY side, and all the hidden chaos and conflicts you have never tasted before as a member of the Chinese society so homogeneous in terms of its culture, race, language, and people ... be well and prepared now, get your ass straight, stop complaining, and get smart by studying hard and learn real skills my pal -- the only people who complains all day long and do nothing creative are those who only look and see and say (and maybe think to be fair) but get no work done (I am sorry to pick on you philosophers ...